How To Orgasm Female - Resources

Question: How to orgasm??--female?

(Posted by: Jacqueline Jordan on 2009-10-03 23:37:32)

I have never had an orgasm... all advice accepted I should add... I can orgasm alone... Just not by (male)... Thanks CAMMY!!! :)

Posted by: ideas on 2009-10-04, 19:08:44

The experience you describe is very, very common. Orgasm is a tricky thing for women. Many women do not orgasm when having vaginal sex. I dare say the majority of women have this issue. I suspect that the penis either doesn't provide enough stimulation to your clit during intercourse, or the guy simply strokes too hard, which provides too much stimulation and makes it difficult for you to orgasm. Also, a lot of men don't really understand how much orgasm differs for women. We are almost always able to orgasm, so we assume women are the same way. In reality, you have to do things just right during intercourse to make most women orgasm. I suggest you talk to your man and have him stroke slowly, fully, rhythmically for a pretty long period of time. This usually does the trick, but it requires a bit of patience and skill from your partner. Receiving oral sex is one of the best ways for a woman to orgasm. And a small external vibrator is also a good choice, if you'd like to try something new. Good luck.

Posted by: Mariel on 2009-10-03, 23:47:06

First u need to find the location of ur clit. now if u r ready, put a little lubrication and start rubbing and stimulating the surrounding parts of it.

Posted by: ? on 2009-10-03, 23:53:43

If you're masturbating and trying to orgasm that way, then I'm sorry but I don't have any advice for you. If you're having sex, then get your partner to rub your clit with wet fingers while he penetrates your vagina. For me, the best position to orgasm in would have to be doggy style. It gives the deepest penetration, it's simple and guys love it too. Even better, kneel on the floor facing the bed (like prayer position), and get your partner to fukc you from behind. Just keep at it for like 30 minutes and you should orgasm. I should also mention that before I met my boyfriend I couldn't orgasm either. I think I need to feel comfortable with the person I am with and also feel loved in order to orgasm. Good luck!